Some people think that the family is the most important influence on the young adults. Other people

As social being we are surrounded by family and friends. we are very close to them. some people believe that family is the most important influence on young adults. but I believe friends are the most important influence on young adults . I feel this way because young adults spend most of their time with their friends.

 To begin with ,before we become teenagers family has a huge influence on us. we have alot in commen with them, they support us, they shape our personality but as we grow older we spend more time with our friends and get away from our family .so our friends impress us more and we really want to be like them.we think our parents do not understand us. this is the same deal for most people.but there are some poeple who spend most of their time with their family and prefer to spend time with their friends than with their friends. our parents always has a great impact on us to shape our future lives. our parents give us information about our culture and rules and teach us many things. some teenagers may think this is too much and want to get away from their family. thus our friends are our age so we may think they understand us more.

  In addition, parents are a role model for children and they are their children heros. but as most children grow up they forget what they wanted in the past and forget their dreams. plus it depends on their friends what they want now.most destructive thing that could happen to a person is a bad friend. A bad friend could lead you to your most tribble mistakes. although you can make your best time with a very good friend.

  To sum it up, I believe that as long as you are a kid your parents and your family have the most impotant influence on you but as you grow older you getaway from your family and your friends will have more influence on you than your family.